I Met With (Or Spoke To) Another Adoption Agency About Giving My Baby Up For Adoption And I Have Decided To Keep The Baby. What Should I Do?
We, at Adoption Attorneys Kirsh & Kirsh, P.C. (“Kirsh & Kirsh”) cannot speak for adoption agencies, but we, at Kirsh & Kirsh, would NEVER pressure, or try to make, a birth mother feel bad about her decision to parent her child. We understand that she has the ABSOLUTE right to parent her child. Likewise, we do not try to substitute our judgment for hers. All that we ask is that the birth mother tell us as soon as she has made that decision, especially, if she has already selected prospective adoptive parents. When an expectant mother matches with prospective adoptive parents, those adoptive parents forego other opportunities to adopt while waiting for the expectant mother to deliver. Prior to delivery if she decides not to give up her baby for adoption (or more correctly to place her baby for adoption) and she tells us, at Kirsh & Kirsh, we can begin showing that family’s profile to other expectant mothers. That is why letting us know is so important. However, your uncertainty about adoption should not deter you from looking into adoption.
We, at Kirsh & Kirsh — or the “Kirsh Boys,” as the adoption attorneys at Kirsh & Kirsh are sometimes called – Steve, and his brothers, Joel and Rob, and his son, Grant, pride ourselves on answering questions about adoption and explaining the process without pressure or judgment.
Our contact information is below. We will answer your questions and provide you the information you seek, without cost or obligation on your part. In other words, talking to us is FREE and does NOT mean you ever have to talk or text with us, again. The Kirsh Boys have 90 YEARS OF COMBINED EXPERIENCE practicing adoption law. We can help you in finding an AMAZING, WONDERFUL, adoptive home for your precious baby, whether you live in Zionsville or Indianapolis, Bloomington or Columbus, Evansville or Newburgh, South Bend or Michigan City, Bluffton or Ft. Wayne, or any Indiana county or city in between, or ANYWHERE in Tennessee, Mississippi, Kentucky, or Michigan.
There is always a family waiting to love your child. We have lots of family options from which you can choose, all of whom are wonderful, carefully screened, loving families, FROM INDIANA AND ALL OVER THE COUNTRY (married, single, Lesbian, and Gay) who cannot wait to welcome a baby into their hearts and homes and are happy to assist with living expenses to the fullest extent allowed by law. You make all the choices regarding which family adopts your baby & extent of contact you want after the child’s birth.
You can call, text, and or email us anytime -call: 317-575-5555, text: 317-721-2030, email: AdoptionSupport@kirsh.com, or Facebook message: https://www.facebook.com/KirshandKirsh/. We answer our office phone 24 hours a day, every single day. We try to respond to emails and text messages within minutes of receipt.
POSITIVE ADOPTION LANGUAGE DISCLAIMER: Please understand that these blog posts are written in a way to use language that people use when searching for help with their adoption plans. Unfortunately, while all of us understand what positive adoption language means, most expectant moms that come to us at first do not understand what that means. The most common search term on the Internet for expectant moms is “how do I give up my baby for adoption”. If we do not include those words in our blog posts, and instead put “how do I create an adoption plan for my baby” then our website will not show up in most expectant moms’ search results on Google.