I Am Pregnant and Thinking About Adoption for My Newborn Baby. Where Do I Start?

“Is adoption for my baby the right choice?” If this is what you are thinking about, you are not alone. Many expectant birth mothers consider adoption while exploring all their options and make a thoughtful plan for their child’s future. Learning about adoption does not mean you have made a decision; it simply means you’re gathering information. 

Start with Understanding Your Options 

Since 1984, adoption attorneys Kirsh & Kirsh, P.C. (sometimes misspelled as “Kirsch & Kirsch”) have helped birth mothers navigate the adoption process with compassion and care. With over 110+ years of combined adoption law experience, the family-run law firm helps women understand their choices and make informed decisions that feel right for them. 

Depending on your situation, you may have access to support such as: 

• Free counseling before, during, and after placement
• Your own, independent attorney, at no cost to you
• Help with pregnancy-related expenses like rent, groceries, medical bills, and maternity clothing
• Continued support for six weeks after birth

You Are in Control of the Decision 

One of the most important things to know about putting your baby up for adoption is that you remain in control. Nothing is final until you sign consent papers after your baby is born. Simply reaching out to learn more does not mean you have chosen adoption. It only means you are exploring. 

You Can Choose the Adoptive Family 

For birthmothers considering adoption, choosing the adoptive family is one of the most meaningful parts of the process. At Kirsh & Kirsh, you can review family profiles, ask questions, and even meet prospective families if and when you feel comfortable. 

Is Adoption the Right Option? 

Only you can decide what is right for you and your child. 

• For some women, parenting feels right. 

• For others, adoption may feel like the best path forward. 

There is no pressure to decide today. Sometimes having a conversation can help you find clarity. 

You Don’t Have to Figure This Out Alone 

If you are planning to put your baby up for adoption, compassionate support is available 24/7. You can reach out anytime to ask questions or simply talk through your options. 

Call 317-575-5555, Text 800-333-5736, Message us on Facebook Messenger, or email us anytime.  

There is no judgment. No pressure. Just support, information, and someone ready to listen. Because whatever you decide, you do not have to navigate this alone. 

Positive adoption language Disclaimer:   

Please understand that these blogs are written in a way to use language that people use when searching for help with their adoption plans. Unfortunately, while all of us understand what positive adoption language means, most expectant moms who come to us at first do not understand what that means. The most common search term on the Internet for pregnant moms is “How do I give up my baby for adoption.” If we do not include those words in our blog posts and instead put “How do I create an adoption plan for my baby,” then our website will not show up in most expectant moms’ search results in Google.