I Am Afraid To Look Into Adoption. I Don’t Want My Child To Hate Me If I Give The Child Up For Adoption
No parent wants their child to hate them. However, some children (particularly during their teenaged years) hate their parents for all kinds of reasons, real and imagined. Therefore, no matter what decision a parent makes affecting their child, there is no guarantee that the child will not find fault with the parent’s action. Parents should not make decisions for their children based upon a hope that their children will like or approve of the decisions. Parents should make decisions based upon what the parent believes serves the child’s best interests. If a woman with an unplanned pregnancy or untimely pregnancy believes that putting her baby up for adoption or, more correctly, making an adoption plan for the child gives the child the best opportunity to live a productive life and reach his or her full potential, then the birth parent needs to take that action regardless of the child’s feelings about the decision. By the way, many adopted children love their birth parents for having put the child’s need above the birth parents’ own breaking hearts.
As adoption attorneys, Kirsh & Kirsh, P.C. (“Kirsh & Kirsh”), have seen over nearly the last 40 years the love for their children birth mother have demonstrated in assuring their children a bright future by selecting adoptive parents who cannot wait to welcome a child into their hearts and homes and will devote every moment of their lives to the happiness and success of their child. There is nothing more “motherly” than placing a child’s needs above those of the parent.
Placing a child for adoption is scary. There is nothing easy about it, but working with a national adoption agency, local adoption agency, or experienced, reputable, compassionate adoption law firm, like Kirsh & Kirsh, with over 90 years of combined legal experience working with expectant mothers and birth mothers, can make the process easier. We, at Kirsh & Kirsh, will not pressure you, make you feel badly about whatever choice you make, or try to involve ourselves in your personal affairs.
If you would like to explore adoption, we, at Kirsh & Kirsh — or the “Kirsh Boys,” as the adoption attorneys at Kirsh & Kirsh are sometimes called – Steve, and his brothers, Joel and Rob, and his son, Grant, pride themselves on answering questions about adoption and explaining the process without pressure or judgment.
Our contact information is below. We will answer your questions and provide you with the information you seek without cost or obligation on your part. In other words, talking to us is FREE and does NOT mean you ever have to talk or text with us again. We can help you in finding an AMAZING, WONDERFUL adoptive home for your precious baby, whether you live in Greenwood or Indianapolis, Columbus or Ellettsville, Evansville or New Albany, South Bend or Rensselaer, Decatur or Ft. Wayne, or any Indiana county or city in between, or ANYWHERE in Tennessee, Mississippi, Kentucky, or Michigan.
There is always a family waiting to love your child. We have lots of family options from which you can choose, all of whom are wonderful, carefully screened, loving families FROM INDIANA AND ALL OVER THE COUNTRY (married, single, Lesbian, and Gay) who cannot wait to welcome a baby into their hearts and homes and are happy to assist with living expenses to the fullest extent allowed by law. You make all the choices about which family adopts your baby & extent of contact you want after the child’s birth.
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POSITIVE ADOPTION LANGUAGE DISCLAIMER: Please understand that these blog posts are written in a way to use language that people use when searching for help with their adoption plans. Unfortunately, while all of us understand what positive adoption language means, most expectant moms that come to us at first do not understand what that means. The most common search term on the Internet for expectant moms is “how do I give up my baby for adoption.” If we do not include those words in our blog posts and instead put “how do I create an adoption plan for my baby” then our website will not show up in most expectant moms’ search results in Google.