I Am Not White And Thinking About Giving My Baby Up For Adoption, But All The Prospective Adoptive Parents Seem To Be White

I Am Not White And Thinking About Giving My Baby Up For Adoption, But All The Prospective Adoptive Parents Seem To Be White

We, at Adoption Attorneys Kirsh & Kirsh, P.C. (“Kirsh & Kirsh”), do NOT discriminate based upon the race of our prospective adoptive parent clients, but most families in the United States hoping to adopt are white. This is true whether you go to a local adoption agency, national adoption agency, or adoption attorneys like Kirsh & Kirsh. We understand that birth mothers often want a family of their same heritage or race to adopt. We will try our best to match them with such a family, but that is not always possible. However, any family we present to an expectant mother to consider will have been thoroughly screened, investigated, and educated about adopting transracially. While matching the birth mother’s race is an important consideration in which family she wants to adopt, ethnic heritage or race should not be the only consideration. For that reason, many of the birth mothers who come to us to find a family choose a family based upon other factors because they believe the family they have chosen will treasure, love, and give their child the best life possible, while still honoring the child’s heritage/and or race.

If you would like more information about adoption and available living expenses during and after your pregnancy, we, at Adoption Attorneys Kirsh & Kirsh — or the “Kirsh Boys,” as the adoption attorneys at Kirsh & Kirsh are sometimes called – would be happy to help. Steve, and his brothers, Joel and Rob, and his son, Grant, pride themselves on answering questions about adoption and explaining the process without pressure or judgment. 

At Adoption Attorneys Kirsh & Kirsh, the four adoption attorneys at Kirsh & Kirsh have over 100 years of combined legal experience arranging adoptions. Kirsh & Kirsh has been in existence since 1981. We know Indiana Adoption Law inside and out. We can find a wonderful home for your baby regardless of your social and medical history. Please be honest with us and do not worry that no one will want your baby.  There is always a family waiting to love your child. We have lots of wonderful, carefully screened, loving families, FROM INDIANA AND ALL OVER THE COUNTRY (married, single, Lesbian, and Gay) who cannot wait to welcome a baby into their hearts and homes and are happy to assist with living expenses to the fullest extent allowed by law. You make all the choices about which family adopts your baby and the extent of contacts you want after the child’s birth. Conversely, if you do not wish to choose the family, we will pick the best family on your behalf.

As attorneys, we at Kirsh & Kirsh have extremely high standards for the prospective adoptive parents we choose to represent. All our waiting families are carefully screened and thoroughly investigated. We will arrange for you to have contact with the family you choose on your terms, without families trying to reach you at all hours of the day or night. 

Our contact information is below. We will answer your questions and provide the information you seek, without cost or obligation on your part. In other words, talking to us is FREE and does NOT mean you ever have to talk or text with us, again. We can help you in finding an AMAZING, WONDERFUL, adoptive home for your precious baby, whether you live in Noblesville or Indianapolis, Kokomo or Bloomington, Vincennes or Newburgh, LaPorte or South Bend, West Lafayette or Ft. Wayne, or any Indiana county or city in between, or ANYWHERE in Tennessee, Mississippi, Kentucky, Michigan, or Illinois.

You can call, text and or email us anytime — call: 317-575-5555, text: 800-333-5736contact us, or Facebook message. We answer our office phone 24 hours a day, every single day. We try to respond to emails and text messages within minutes of receipt.

POSITIVE ADOPTION LANGUAGE DISCLAIMER:  Please understand that these blog posts are written in a way to use language that people use when searching for help with their adoption plans.  Unfortunately, while all of us understand what positive adoption language means, most expectant moms that come to us at first do not understand what that means. The most common search term on the Internet for expectant moms is “how do I give up my baby for adoption”.  If we do not include those words in our blog posts, and instead put “how do I create an adoption plan for my baby” then our website will not show up in most expectant mom’s search results in Google.

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